This is not an excerpt from a movie…This is REAL LIFE ISSUES faced by an african woman.

Life as a married woman has been a roller coaster ride. From dealing with family(extended family) to my husband and discovering the side of me that  I never knew existed....*sigh* It has really been a journey.

Where do I begin?

I got married at the age of 26 and like every other girl, it was a fairy tale wedding and a dream come true for me. I thought I had married right and that everything would be perfect. Since I want to remain anonymous on the blog, I won't want to give too much away just yet.

I have had my fair share of heartache, betrayal, lies, anger and the list is endless. However, I started this blog because I want to share my story and also encourage someone out there. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel. NEVER GIVE UP. Marriage is HARD but it is still worth it. 

Some ladies probably have marriage easy, others don't. My advice is whatever the case may be, always, I repeat always seek God's guidance in every step of your marriage journey.

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